A question for the male ... and one for the female.

What's your opinion on the woman taking a man out to dinner and picking up the tab? I'd love your reply ... and whether you believe this mentality is dictating a tenor for our society today with regard to confusing roles. Yes, we're in the 21st century - it is 2009, but to what degree are we enabling this stepping-out-of-the-box of gender roles to diminish the position of the man in our society?

So, Guys, honestly, do you feel "de-powered" when a woman "takes over" control in this area? Do you reluctantly relinquish, or gladly abdicate your position of provider/protector?

Gals, do you feel it's acceptable etiquette to invite and pay for meals/tips for men? What is the number one reason you would "rather" pay for a meal than have him pay for it?

Food for thought, but I'd love your feedback.

Be blessed.